Season Change, Rearrange, and often stay the same

The air is crisper and more relaxed and for some reason, it triggered my unknown seasonal obsession; y’all I was playing Motown Christmas. If I’m being honest, this year is the first year in a while that I am feeling festive and jolly. These past few years have definitely been giving Scrooge McDuck. Now, I’m in a much more secure position in my life, despite everything going to shit earlier this year; I landed exactly where I was supposed to; funny how life works. 

One could say I have much to celebrate. One could also say, I may have developed a  maturing love for fall-beginning of winter that I don’t feel I had before; I’m feel very in flow. I am divinely and irrevocably exactly where I need to be. I’ve reached a place in my life where I understand that my future is based on the small habits and thoughts that are fueling my life right now. If I want to get my life where I would like it to be, I need to ensure that the small things I invest my energy in today align with the person I am becoming. This clarity has allowed me to be more discerning with where I choose to invest my time and what I give energy to and HONEY…. It has done WONDERS for my mental health!

What would happen if you kept your eyes on your own paper and focused on getting yourself wherever it is you want to be? How much time and energy do you give away investing in things that don't align, even if it’s for a moment? 

I recently saw a tweet that affirmed my current position in life; it basically said when you are coming to the end of your 20- somethings, it just clicks and you no longer care about doing things that don't make you happy. I’ve become very unapologetic with how I choose to live my life and the boundaries I enforce to do so. My attitude is, It’s my life and quite frankly EVERYONE ELSE is UNQUALIFIED and DOES NOT HAVE THE RANGE to speak, judge, or provide input on how I choose to live this life. If they were so focused on their own life, there would be no time to care about how I live mine, trust me, I know.  

So this is where I have landed currently, and it feels good; a bit lonely still but good. May this blunt be a nice hit for your high and push you closer to fewer fucks being given. This has truly been a game-changer for me.